My graduation speech for high-school, as valid-victorian.
Dear family, friends and graduating class of 2021,
As I stand at the edge of nearing my 17th year, a young adult navigating the uncharted waters of this world, I address you—my fellow graduates, my companions in this journey— with a message forged in the fires of our shared struggles and triumphs. We’ve just crossed the threshold of high school graduation, a milestone that demanded grit, late nights, and unwavering resolve. But as we step into adulthood, I see a truth we must face: the road ahead will test us in ways we can’t yet imagine. My words today are not just a reflection but a call to action—to take control of your life, to push through the inevitable hardships, and to stand unshaken behind the beliefs and morals that define you.
Life, as we’re already learning, is no gentle current. It’s a storm of challenges— financial pressures, societal expectations, and the weight of a world that often feels designed to pull us in directions we didn’t choose. Some of you are already grappling with the cost of tuition, the uncertainty of careers, or the sting of personal setbacks. I know this pain intimately. I carry the echo of my story, filled with years of forces beyond my control, where the world seemed too heavy to bear. These scars remind me that struggle is universal, but so is resilience. You fought to graduate, clawing through exams, deadlines, and doubts. That same strength lives in you now. You must summon it again.
Adulthood is not just a phase; it’s a mantle of responsibility. You are no longer passengers in someone else’s story—you are the authors of your own. This means taking the wheel, even when the road is rough. It means making choices that align with your values, not the loud voices of a society that profits from your conformity. The world will try to shape you—through media that spins narratives, systems that reward compliance, or pressures that tempt you to abandon your principles. But you have the power to resist. You have the right to question who pulls the strings and why. Take control. Define your path. Decide what matters to you, not what’s been decided for you.
Yet, as you forge ahead, I urge you to hold fast to your beliefs and morals. They are your compass in a world that often obscures the truth. Whether it’s standing up for what’s right, even when it’s unpopular, or holding firm to the values that ground you, never back down. Your convictions are not just ideas—they’re the foundation of who you are. I’ve seen how easy it is to waver, to let doubt or fear erode what you know to be true. But I’ve also seen the fire in my peers, the same fire that carried you to graduation, that pushed you through sleepless nights and moments of defeat. That fire is your strength. Let it burn brightly.
This is not a naive call to ignore life’s complexities. I know the weight of mental health struggles, the sting of loss, the confusion of a world that feels fractured. But I also know that you are capable of more than you realize. I have came to learn that the deepest wounds can heal with persistence; even the darkest moments pass if you keep fighting. You’ve already proven you can overcome—graduation was no small feat. Now, take that same courage into the world.
So, to my peers: rise up. Push through the struggles, as you did to earn that diploma. Take control of your life, steering it toward what you believe in. And never, ever compromise the morals that make you who you are. The world may try to bend you, but you were born to stand tall. Let’s write our stories—not as followers, but as leaders of our own truths.
With unwavering belief in you all,
-[my name]
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